Anyone that knows me knows I have an obsessive personality. I get that it bugs some people when I obsess about things. They love to tell me to stop, but they never tell me how. When I ask them how to stop, they say, just do it. Really? Just do it, Is that the best you have to offer. Do they not get if it were as easy for me as to JUST DO IT I would have stopped obsessing decades ago? I do not think they get it. The obsessing about things is part of my genetic make up, and can not just be turned off like a switch. In time, I can move past that obsession, but it is usually replaced by another one. If those that say not to obsess have any real advice on HOW to stop it, I would love to hear it. However, if you do not have any more idea how to not obsess then I do please keep your opinions to yourself. It is not productive to say stop and not offer a means to do so, and at times it may come off as you do not like me, and you are just being picky to make me feel bad.